Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Obsession!!!!

I just don't get it. I have seen an increase in the number of ads featuring well-endowed females in low cut outfits flaunting their assets and giving a mega-watt smile. They will be promoting the beauty agency which apparently was responsible for their increase in bust size and there always will be a storyline for that lady. A typical storyline- I was dissatisfied with my small bust and it affected my confidence and my husband has also hinted about it. After I went to so and so beauty agency, my bust size has increased considerably and I feel more confident of myself and my husband is much happier.Who came up with such a storyline? Even it's true, can't they come up with something interesting.
I may not be an expert on this bust issue but as one of my girlfriends' summed it, breasts define a women. I agree with her to a certain extent as a small bust line can affect a woman's confidence and it's an obvious physical atrribute for a lady but a bust size does not define a woman totally. I believe character and personality define a woman. If a woman does not have those qualities, she's not worth my time and effort. The girl for all i might care might have a hot bod but if she doesn't have a great personality, TOO BAD!! You can find many hot girls on the street but it's very difficult to find a girl with a great personality. What do i mean by great personality? Someone who has a mind of her own and interesting to talk to and offers an alternative opinion instead of agreeing with me all the time(I like girls who disagree with me only if their arguments make sense). The girl will be fantastic if she has a great sense of humour and adventure. Sad to say, the girls nowadays lack some of these qualities and only a few gems exist today. The gems include my girlfriends(I won't bother making friends with you girls if you don't have these)
All my girl fans or girlfriends will want to hit back at me saying that it is guys which cause girls to go under the knife or feel the pressure to look bad. I'm not denying the fact I admire girls with hot bods and i might go gaga-over them. Which guy doesn't? It's normal for guys to admire hot girls and check them out. I guess some guys are asses when it boils down to the vital stats and they compare their gf/wife with other girls. Dudes, i'm sure you don't want your wives or gfs to be like Pamela Anderson!! It's all in the short term but for a long term relationship or friendship, I feel that great personality is more important than a great bust. I will go for an average girl with a great personality than a hot bimbotic girl.
On the other hand, I'm all for females who are not satisfied with their bust size and they feel they should go for an operation to make themselves look good. If it's going to boost yr confidence level, then go for it. If you gals are going just because yr husband or boyfriend wants you to go for the operation, just dump the fella and move on with life. He's not worth the time and he doesn't love you for who u are and only cares about yr assests. Most importanly, Be true to yrself. You have only one life and make full use of it instead of worrying about trivial issues.

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